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The reflection below is from Pax Christi USA Ambassador of Peace Donna Toliver Grimes from the 2005 Advent reflection booklet, Tell Them About the Times When Jesus Came: Reflections for Advent 2005.
by Donna Toliver Grimes
Pax Christi USA Ambassador of Peace
Isaiah 60:1-6 | Ephesians 3:2-3, 5-6 | Matthew 2:1-12
“Lift up your eyes and look around; they all gather together, they come to you; your sons shall come from far away, and your daughters shall be carried on their nurses’ arms … They shall bring gold and frankincense, and shall proclaim the praise of God.”
Isaiah 60:4, 6b
As a teenager it was awesome to celebrate the Eucharist in my grandparents’ living room. We had home Masses on several occasions during my grandfather’s long illness and at family gatherings. Some of my mother’s friends were nuns and priests. Our faith meant a lot to us and still does.
In high school I sought dynamic liturgies. My father drove me to some radical folk Masses. As a convert to Catholicism, I think he appreciated the variations that were not allowed in our parish services back then.
Since we lived near Catholic University, we had many options within the Catholic experience. A plethora of parishes, religious houses, and other Catholic institutions surrounded us. It was also a time of transition following Vatican II, when priests and religious experimented with various forms of music, movement, and dress. Some of my favorite prayerful experiences occurred at outdoor Masses.
Many years later, I still appreciate the diversity of expressions within the Catholic framework. At the end of Mass in a parish in Daytona Beach, the priest asked, “Who’s going to bake the bread for Mass next Sunday?” He then handed the first volunteer (a man) the recipe book. At a parish in Wilmington, Delaware, a physician and young father of four danced barefoot in a freestyle with teen ballerinas while holy water was sprinkled on the congregation. In Saginaw, Michigan, a laywoman preached at the cathedral. These are a few of many liturgical experiences that touched me.
For me, Mass is a wonderful recurring gift that is well worth the spiritual journey. Whether I come to Mass sleepy and tired, a little bored or distracted, burdened with concerns, or in joyful anticipation, there’s a gift waiting there for me. Thankfully, Mass remains an essential part of my spiritual journey. I pray that we all experience its grace and gift. This reminds me of a Nigerian proverb, “Someone else’s legs do you no good in traveling.”
FOR REFLECTION:
- Talk with someone who attends daily liturgy about what this means to her or his faith life.
- Recall the last time you had a significant, positive experience of liturgy. What were the factors?
- If your recent experiences of mass tend to be less than favorable, what could you or will you do differently?
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Amen! I share some lovely memories similar to Donna’s! My parents 60th wedding anniversary, when declining dad, together with mom, Fr. Bill O’Donnell, and my sister and I celebrated Mass around the kitchen table. Another time when My sister, a nurse, joined me and four classes of third and fourth graders for a week in Yosemite. We were stormed in! The worst storm in the history of Yosemite! It was a special Feast Day and my sister was deeply disappointed that Mass was not available. While we were talking to young man in the shelter where everyone was gathered, we learned that he was priest from South America on a camping vacation. We found a little table in a quiet corner of the crowded and noisy room and he celebrated Mass with the two of us. My favorites were the outdoor Masses in my area, during Covid. Two churches in our area had outdoor Masses during Covid. My parish celebrated Mass in an out door garden from Spring equinox to Autumn equinox! What a blessing!
During COVID a priest friend of mine & his family invited me to join them every week for Zoom Masses. We were from four different States and three generations.
When he died in a freak accident this summer, his brother took a snapshot from one of those and made it into a beautiful memorial card. Fr.Tom had a great love for the Mass and brought that to us in our Cheyenne Wyoming Diocese and Marriage Encounter.